Thursday, August 22, 2013

Looking Back 50 Years Plus

Morningside High School, my alma mater.

We were only 100 in each of two classes when we started so we knew one another.  Look what I discovered on Wikipedia about MHS.


My memory of Bobbie was we both having poison ivy at the same time.  He was a funny guy.  Barbara I remember as being the "model, beauty queen" she moved in our last year or two.  I found beyond her label that she was an ordinary person to talk to besides living quite a different life.  Everyone knew John, the basketball star, class president, student body president, didn't date but was congenial to everyone.  His immigrant father was a vegetable dealer in LA that my Dad recalled playing soccer against, Scots vs Magyars.  His Wiki bio has for this year "he again donated to Stanford, writing a check for $151 million, making it the largest individual donation in the school's history."

What prompted all this?

As I was reviewing the story of David and me from 50 years ago I thought to look for online photos, etc. of the time.

When I checked on Westminster High School where I had taught when Dad and I met I was stunned to discover the Freeway serial killer, a horrible story.  This boy was in the graduating class the year I taught home economics at WHS.  There was another student, a girl, who made the notable alumni list from that class.  I loved teaching there.  Who would have guessed the future from that point in time?

Moving on:  It was fun to capture video and a photo of the stands of the Rose Bowl game USC vs Michigan.   Daddy and I went thanks to Jack, my cousin, Pasadena Chamber of Commerce manager.  I remember it as a very exciting game and the video demonstrates that.  No wonder I tend to loose interest watching average games.  But then, I don't know much about the game.

Evidently the digital copy of "Wifie" has been lost so I'm retyping it as I edit.  This got started as a way to anticipate our 50th Anniversary, 21 December.  You know what that means for Mark, he can begin anticipating his 50th birthday!

I'm just finishing the last pages of President Bangerter's autobiography. It has really been an interesting read.  I found it wonderful to read that he and Sister Bangerter and their family celebrated the 50th Wedding Anniversary of he and his first wife, Mildred who died of leukemia after less than 10 years of marriage and 4 children, the last of which died at birth the year before Mildred.

I'm in good company to celebrate the 50th Anniversary of my marriage to David, gone almost 30 years, but not forgotten.   


All this has prompted some nice  little trails of research and clarifications after all these years since that era of my life.  

My occupational hazard and delight.

A teaser,

We sat on the 50-yard line, USC side.  
and another . . . .

Monday, August 19, 2013

Remembering Clara Barton Johnson

Its been more than a week since Clara Johnson's funeral.  Time to share some remembrances of the day. 

It was delightful to visit with Moab friends/ Dad's first students, the Bailey's, Molly, 90 something and two of her 4 boys.  The other two are on missions with their wives in the Bay Area, Steve and Dennis are waiting for their calls.  Chatted with several of the Carlsons and a couple of Nordfelts.  Had good visits with Clara's daughters Colleen, Carolyn and Janice.  Colleen has great difficulty walking.  She was stricken with MS her first year at Ricks.  After recovering enough to a wheelchair and then cane she went to BYU  and served a mission in Guatemala, married and had seven children.  All of that was most unlikely to say the least.  She has more determination than I can imagine. 

Colleen, Janice and Jay's wife spoke at Clara's funeral.  I'd like to share just a few quotes of Clara's that they shared because they typify her simple wisdom that has blessed me.  

Clara quotes from Janice: 
They were unexpectedly, both widows within three months of Arden’s (Clara's husband) death at 97.  Janice and her children moved in with Clara to care for her.  On a very hard day for Janice, Clara said,  “Regardless [of your unexpected sorrow] you need to do what’s right.”  Those simple words gave Janice courage to keep going and just do what was right one step at a time.

In Jay’s wife’s talk she shared three Clara quotes:

 1.  “If you ain’t got no choice, be brave!”  Cowboy saying.

2.  In their early years of marriage Clara and Arden lived in a log cabin on his father’s ranch in La Sal.  Outhouse, wood heating, cooking  were the conveniences.  While scrubbing the wood floor one winter, with two children, she had an amazing feeling of gratitude as she paused to survey her surroundings.  When she returned to finish the floor the water was frozen!  

That was the Clara outlook on life that I benefited from.  

3.  “Is it hard enduring to the end?  No!  The hard thing would be not enduring to the end."


Bishop Wes Matheson’s remarks were impressive in his intimate knowledge of Clara and Arden.  Of note was the fact that they had arranged the ability for her to listen to sacrament meeting from her home, remotely,  during her homebound years.  I can't imagine anything so kind for Clara.  Simple pleasures.

This evening I was thinking of all of you and your recent and ongoing challenges and changes in your lives as I knelt for my bedtime prayer.  As I prayed I felt as Clara did more than 70 years ago, an amazing feeling of gratitude and felt compelled to tell you so.  

Its because of whatever challenges I've had in life that I know what I know.  I wouldn't trade any of it. I'm grateful.  How else would I have known the great love of God for me and every person who has ever lived.  We can't manage through life on our own.  No one can.  That is what life is about.  I know that and I'm assured that you do as well.

I'm grateful.

Sunday, July 7, 2013

Independence Day Weekend

Polly and I helped at the Foothill neighborhood 4th of July breakfast Thursday morning after a very big downpour in the middle of the night.  It had the affect of cleaning the landscape for breakfast.  We got the eggs scrambled.  As I continued scrambling dozens and dozens of eggs, she and friends cooked them on the grill along with sliced ham, pancakes, Einstein bagels, OJ/coffee.  We worked along side a great crew.  A great breakfast and wonderful community gathering.  Neighbors greeting and meeting neighbors.  I love seeing the decorated bikes and the excited children dressed up for the 4th in red/white/blue.  I love eating breakfast on such a day in such pleasant surroundings.  No wonder the guys don't ever want to miss a 4th of July breakfast.  Remember last year's Boise Kiwanis Club Breakfast at the park?


Yesterday I spent the afternoon with my Brazilian friends.  Kaue returned from his mission to my hometown, L.A. Spanish-speaking.  His family including Gonzaga grandparents returned to LA to visit.  It was delightful to sit with them at the computer and see photos and hear stories of his very successful mission.  When Polly, the boys and I were in LA at the temple visitor center Kaue was working out of the mission office assisting the president.  He knew Lennox Ward of my teen years and San Pedro Ward of my post-college years.  He worked with people returning and people new and people young and in their 80s.  Lots of wonderful Mexican food.  A very happy mission.  He is still connected to them, calling and encouraging them.  He has been able to keep Spanish and Portuguese separate pretty much. 
Kaue in Watts sitting on the Florence Avenue Blue-line station stairs.  Graffiti gang logos in the Watts riots area.
The Junot family live in Daybreak near the Oquirrh Mountain Temple.  His baby sister, Kristine now 3 is a darling as is Samara, my little buddies.  I happened to wear my lembranças necklace of Brazilian , UK, Egypt, Israel, dino, Native American charms.   They were captivated with the little silver stamp purse that opens.   They both have American girl dolls that they love and look a lot like them.  They both were excited to ride their bikes for me.  Kaue had finished his AA at LDS Busisiness College and will be at BYU civil engineering leading to architecture.  His sister Katharine will be going to UVU for ASL and dental hygiene.  Suella will be in middle school and Samara in Chinese immersion 1st grade.  The Gonzagas currently have two sister missionaries, one in Roma the other at Temple Square both sisters from their oldest daughter Monica that was less than two when we taught them.  The Gonzagas only son Mauricio and his wife have one more year of their mission and then their youngest son will leave for his mission.  I've lost track (about 9) of the number of missionaries from the family that we taught in Brazil 53 years ago.  Their last family reunion was 52 in number.  Santos is now its own mission!  When Norma and I were there it was two branches, Santos and São Vicente.  It is thrilling to me to have our Hannah, our first missionary from from the current generation now serving.  
The fly leaf of "LDS References" Sister Mills and I had given to the Gonzagas when they were baptized.  They really used it.  They were Protestants and knew the bible well.  This gave them a reference to learn the gospel from an LDS perspective.  It was well-used.

Apple pie has been a part of our friendship.  I had taught Suelena to make apple pie after they were baptized and it has become their family traditional dessert.  Last time they were here I took them a variation,  sliced apple pastry.  Yesterday I took them Polly's fresh blueberry pie in a favorite Ben Behunin pie plate with whipped cream.  The pie plate is very pretty impressionistic colors of the Utah mountain landscape.  

They totally surprised me with a beautiful gem stone treasure of an ara (aka macaw) perched on an amethyst geode.  Aras are common in parts of Brazil if you can imagine.  
We saw them in São Paulo groves of trees where orchids grew wild.  

I came home exhausted from trying to resurrect my Portuguese. and fell asleep reading Scott Carrier's "Prisoner of Zion: Muslims, Mormons and Other Misadventures", a collection of short stories.  It is not sleep inducing.  I was just very brain tired.  Carrier is a SLC native, non-Mormon, Peabody award winning, free-lance journalist.  I'm sure I've heard his contributions on NPR.  He has a personal life as well as a profession that influence his stories.  I had abandoned the book after a couple of stories that gave me the impression that if he was so misinformed on Mormon temple beliefs, what was credible on Muslims?  Then I read a 5-star Goodreads review that pointed me to his last story and I decided to take it up again.  I'm glad I did.  Its going to be a wrestle to write my own review.  

Happy Independence Day!

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Top 5 Myths and Truths . . . by John Dehlin.

I took an hour from Saturday house cleaning to watch John's presentation on this important topic that is of interest to me.          



Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Clue #42

Our 42nd annual celebration of New Year's Eve was one of the simplest and most delightful.  The Wilson and Parkinson Taylor cousins and I gathered on Bryan Avenue Monday evening.  Jill and Clay had a good start to the menu and Polly helped them polish it off.



The menu.



Distinguished Guests 

Left to right:
Miss Scarlet, Miss Peacock, Colonel Mustard, Mr. Green, Professor Scientist, Dr. Black, Professor Plum, Mrs. White, Master Mango.
Mug shots of guests
Weapons


Left to right:
The Lounge (dang! I should have rotated it), The Hall, The Kitchen
The Dining Room (crazy me, upside down), The Conservatory, The Parlor, and The Ballroom.
Rooms


It was a great evening.  

However, the real mystery was the next morning.  Who had taken the last piece of Red Velvet Cake?  Out came all the mug shots, the weapons and the rooms and the investigation began.  It was finally deduced by those present that the most likely weapon was The Knife.  The scene of the crime was The Dining Room.  The most likely culprits were:  Miss Scarlet, Miss Peacock and Mrs. White.  Mrs. White! That's me.  I cannot imagine why I was a suspect, but nevertheless, I was.  

Over time while Miss Scarlet and Miss Peacock were walking the dogs Mrs. White was no longer considered a suspect.  When the two most likely returned Colonel Mustard confronted Miss Scarlet directly,  "Did you, indeed, eat the last piece of Red Velvet Cake?"  Her unabashed reply, "It was only a little part of a slice."  No matter, Colonel Mustard had the culprit and the case was solved.

Attention turned to other matters among the family canines.  Buddy and Juniper provided entertainment  tugging on a poor little fox toy.  A treat for each resolved the conflict.  Doxie wisely stayed clear of the contest.


Its been delightful talking to the rest of the family and hearing of them welcoming in the new year.  Our  Kentucky cousins stayed up for the first time till midnight after enjoying breakfast for dinner brought by    friends.  Bruce is back to work and MeeMaw comes Thursday to meet Gilbert and be a very welcome helper.  The Boise cousins had Italian with great Italian sodas by David, sounds tempting for next year.  The Oakridge cousins had pot roast and Yorkshire, yummm.  From what everyone reported it sounds like all had a grand time.  There is no better way to welcome the new year.  

Hello, 2013! 




Tuesday, October 23, 2012

New Dimension to My Mission

Sunday,  I heard Sennet Fraughton report his Albuquerque NM mission.  For two years I've read his e-mails home and often been inspired.  They've always been interesting about the challenges and opportunities of a mission.  I've missed them the past couple of weeks since he returned home.

My mission of creating facebook pages for LDS meetinghouses has passed the 1500 mark with many more to go.  I started this mission when my Brazilian Gonzaga family started their missions. When Mauricio was set apart to preside over the Brazil Maceio Mission I felt a desire to also serve.  Elder Neal Andersen expressed confidence I would find a way.  Sharing the Gospel Online church-service mission has been my way.

I've done several projects.  In the back of my mind I've been concerned about the fb pages I've been creating.  They are there, but what is happening to them after I make them?

A couple of months ago fb came up with an app to more easily monitor the pages.  The problem was that it only accommodated 50 pages!  Blindly I added the app and step by step I've figured out the value for my work.  Simply said, it helps me to be aware that "something" is going on in the pages.  

Sunday I felt to browse the long list of fb pages on my desktop for indications of comments/likes on any of the pages.  A quick scroll through the list startled me with how many contacts  had been made.  For the next three days, probably about 10 hours I started opening and responding to the posts.  

Occasionally I find messages left wanting more information. Last week a woman and her family inquired about rentals in the ward in Indiana. 

A summary of my favorite from Champion Alberta:
A non-attending member inquired about the RS leader leaving messages each month but no contact information. Fortunately, ldsmaps had the bishop's phone number. His wife answered and is pleased to contact the inquiring member. This is very sweet! 

An inquiry for information about the members in Georgetown SC in 1897. 

Another at Laval Quebec: 
Comment: Jaimerais suivre une formation biblique? 
Response: S'il vous plaît téléphone Bishop Lallemant, 450-592-3935. 
Tom and Christopher, I hope my google translator French is correct.

Every week there are a number of likes on various pages. Then there is this man who has left the same message at many of the Orem fb pages. 
Hello my name is Arturo Ibarra I need your help for to know in which church it is my son because his register in these moments it is in my church here in Tijuana. Insurgentes Stake - pinos please I need his number of church for send his register thank you for your help. atte. Brother Ibarra . second bishop in pinos My son name's is Arturo Limhi Ibarra Counter year old's 11 
Passed to my Spanish-speaking manager in September. No response, yet.   

Andii L Carmichael 
Hi there. I was just wondering if Bryan Meyers still goes to your church? He came to Australia 12 or so years ago as a missionary and I just wondered whatever happened to him. Last I knew he was getting married to a girl named Melissa, or at least I think that is what her name is. It would be very much appreciated if you can answer me back. Thank you. Andrea 

My response:  
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints - 55 E Idaho Falls ID 
I'm a church-service missionary assigned to make fb pages for the meetinghouses. I don't live in Iona. 
You might try a Skype call to the Iona Ward bishop, Bishop Cox, +1 208-403-7771. 
I tried his number but he was not available. You might also try writing to him at the church address. Sorry I wasn't able to help you further.

More examples:
Uday Teki 
Hi ! I completed my mission in India Bangalore Mission few months ago. Please forward my resume to any who can help me find a job. 
Referred to 
https://www.ldsjobs.org/ers/ct/?lang=eng 

Joice Amabile Almeida 
Hello how do I make mormon friends in Chula Vista!? 

Response:
You are welcome to visit the church. Meetings are held every Sunday, 1590 East H St, Chula Vista. Otay Lakes Ward 9:00 AM Chula Vista YSA Ward 11:00 AM Chula Vista 3rd Ward 1:00 PM 

Then this one from a very irritated woman influenced me to monitor posts every day and to respond within 48 hours.
May
Janet
I wish to lodge a formal complaint about harassment. My mother, Pearl Schmidt, who lives with me, does not wish to be contacted by anyone to do with the LDS church. I sent a letter to a nice but persistent little old lady who continually came over to teach my mother when she first moved to Corvallis to live with me three years ago. I told this woman to cease calling on my mother - who is elderly and too polite to express her feelings directly to the woman. The visits upset my mom. She is not of the LDS faith, and does not wish to be approached by anyone affiliated with your organization, because although she belonged to your faith between the ages of 17 and 30, she rejected the tenets of your particular cosmology long ago. Two young men came to my door this afternoon and asked for my mother by name. My mother was very upset by this. Your missionaries and your home teachers are not welcome to pursue my mother against her will. Any further pursuit of my mother by your organization will be construed as harassment. Please make your people stop harassing my mother. If you wish to respond through Facebook, that is fine. I tried to reach people at your local telephone numbers all afternoon and never got an answer. I want to be reasonable, but pursuing my mother for almost sixty years is harassment pure and simple. 

June 15
Janet 
So, you do not answer your facebook pages any more than you answer your telephones? How nice for you. 

June 17
Janet  
What I would like is assurances that you folks will leave my mother completely alone and an apology for the harassment she has experienced over the past many decades. What was done to my father - hounding him until his death a few years ago - was unforgivable. I was present when he clearly requested that he be left alone. What made it worse is that he knew many of his harassers - which they probably thought made it OK to harass him. 

Response:
Janet, I didn't see your messages left in June until now. 
My apologies. I suggest you call Bishop Moore, 541-753-3975. This is his home phone number where you should be able to have better success speaking with someone. He will be able to arrange that representatives of the church do not contact your mother. Again, I'm sorry you've had such a difficult time. 

From Hillsboro OR
Jessica 
I am all moved up to Hillsboro. I have been going to my new ward at Beaver creek but have been unable to really talk to anyone I have two small children who are going through a lot right now so do not want to leave my side I am in desperate need of a queen or full bed, size 5 diapers and a job. please I have left a message with the relief society president for my ward but have gotten no response. We have a place to stay and I am so thankful but the kids and I are currently sleeping on the floor we had an air mattress but it has gotten a hole in it. 

Response:
I hope things are better for you now Jessica and that you've been able to speak to the Beaver Creek Ward Relief Society president. 

Jessica
Yes Thank-you so much. Living a crazy busy life but I feel so blessed to have it! 

This is an interesting one for 2012: 
John Cunningham Pastor and Staff. My name is John Cunningham I am the Republican Candidate for Indiana State Representative Dist 43. I have been endorsed by Indiana Right to Life as a Pro-Life Candidate. I am a member of Grace Baptist Church in Terre Haute Indiana. I am very Conservative,Pro family,Pro Constitution and Bill of Rights. I want to invite you to visit my website www.jc43.org and I would like to visit your church and give my Christian testimony and let people know where I stand on the issues. I am not asking to campaign at your church this I would never do out of Respect for the Lord and the Law,just an Opportunity to let people know who I am, Where I stand,and to answer any Questions they may have for me. I can be reached anytime by email or phone,I have provided contact information for you below. Thank You John Cunningham Republican Candidate for Indiana State Representative Dist 43 john.cunningham1973@yahoo.com www.jc43.org 1-812-841-5734 

Another: 
Nicole Slinker Who is responsible for the page? I would like to update the pictures and information about the place as well as add missionary contact info. 

Response:
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints - Louisville KY 
Nicole, I just came across your comment from May. Sorry for the delay. I'm a church-service missionary creating fb pages for LDS meeting houses. You can add the missionary contact information as a post as well as add pictures as posts. Please do. Thanks for your interest. 

There have been about a dozen scam-type posts which I've opted to delete but this one I kept and answered.

Chrize Ugo hello my name is chrize Ugo from west Africa i well like to know more about the The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints 

Response:
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints - Windsor Lake, Columbia SC 
Visit mormon.org and learn more about the Church.

The above is only from the first day  

Yesterday, the wife of the ward mission leader in Dawson Creek Alaska Ward asked who was creating this other fb page for Dawson Creek Ward.  After a few exchanges they accepted me in their "closed" (at the request of the bishop) fb page.  It has really been interesting to browse the page since they began in April.  I think the value of a ward fb page is not to just post newsletter-type information of events and happenings but also to post interesting wall photos, videos and Church news as DeAnna is doing.  

DeAnna's post of "The District" prompted this blog entry.  I've only watched the first 25 minute  video of the series and look forward to the next two episodes.  

Take a look at:  
http://byutv.org/watch/188fb34f-53bc-4c0e-bc65-ef659b55652a/the-district-number-one#ooid=lma3A4NjoQVQgUpxAM0MKxkWHYHS5RpA

I'm surprised that I'm as interested in seeing the next episode of "The District" as the next of "Downton Abbey" or "Sherlock"!  

Who would have believed.  It feels like I'm back at the BPL reference desk.


Sunday, August 12, 2012

Enthusiastic Desire


This morning as I was reading our Relief Society lesson for today I recalled Grandma Karma Parkinson's example.  

The lesson (#12 of George Albert Smith Teachings) is about having an enthusiastic desire to share the gospel truths with others.  An image of the copy of the Book of Mormon came to my mind.  Attached to the inside cover was a photo of Grandma and Kathy, her caregiver, and their testimony.

This came about because of someone's suggestion to share the gospel with others in this way.  Their hearts were touched to participate.  Grandma realized that although she had always tried to live by the principles of the Gospel and felt a strong testimony of the truth, she had never read the Book of Mormon, cover to cover.  As I recall, Kathy hadn't read it either and not knowing how to read very well felt inadequate to the task of reading it.  So they determined to read it together.  Every day for weeks and I suppose some months they read together and shared their thoughts.  

Grandma was at least 90!  It meant a great deal to her to at last read the book that made such a great difference in her long life and the lives of her family and friends.  It was important to them both.  Though pretty much homebound, they prepared copies of the Book of Mormon to give to others somewhere in the world.

Reading The Book of Mormon every day makes a difference in teaching us truths as well as reminding and directing us through the day.  It also kindles a desire to do what is right and makes a difference for good.   


Friday, August 10, 2012

Cheeky?

Whether this is cheeky or not its a fact and a statement.  

Its now on the tailgate of my Outback.



I've got two more if anyone would like one.  Let me know.  

First come first served.

Note:
You can also order your own at Mormons for Obama or  from joseph mills (joseph@mormonsforobama.org). 

No offense intended to those of differing opinions. 

Helping in the Vineyard.


                Helping In The Vineyard
               
My church-service mission is getting more and more organized.  We had our first of regular monthly meetings and our numbers are growing.  We now have three districts, ours that is obviously the oldies and two more that consist of young Elders and Sisters that for whatever reason are unable to serve a full-time mission.  These young people are a fine contribution.  It is really sweet to sense the emerging mission feeling.  These young missionaries come in every day to the Riverton office and do their assignments to make a difference with their unique abilities.

The Vineyard article in the Church News describes what our mission leader, Chris Padilla has been doing with The Vineyard.  At times Harriet and I have had fun sharing our computer screens and working on indexing.  We can also work on many other activities together that I had overlooked till reading this article.  There are so many opportunities to do small things that make a difference that I tend to forget them.  Give them a try and find what you can do.  Family home evening, YM/YW and other times in our weeks are good times to check in and do something.  Some people just do one activity for 5-minutes a day every day.

"Ordinary people who faithfully, diligently, and consistently do simple things that are right before God will bring forth extraordinary results."  Elder David A. Bednar

I like that concept!

From time to time I have enjoyed contributing in small ways by adding image search words.

As you see the great variety of images you'll get an idea of the photos that you may have taken over the years that can be contributed at Contribute Photos Activity.  You may not wish to post family-member images but you likely have many others that you could contribute. 

Watching YouTube videos and commenting is another option.
Millions of people are on YouTube daily. As you watch the videos and share them, you will be helping the video itself be seen by more people on YouTube and other video search engines. People will be touched by your comments and the things they feel while enjoying the Mormon Channel videos.

At our missionary meeting I was impressed as I read some of the simple, honest comments members had posted. 

The past couple of  Christmases your Christmas gifts were donations to the poor and needy  and temple patron assistance in various parts of the world through LDS Philanthropies.  There are more options to donate to.  My donations haven't  been big but they have been some thing and I think you've appreciated making a difference in the gift you've received.

The first sharing the gospel online activity I did as I began this mission was Google Local LDS Chapel Review.  Our Boise family did this one family home evening when I was visiting last December as I recall.  Its easy and its natural.  Just think of the various meetinghouses where you have attended church over the years and write your feelings of when you were there.  I'm looking forward to commenting on Centinella Ward building and my memory of sitting on the steps as a 4-year old for a Primary photo and what it has meant to me.  There are scores of other chapels in the U.S.  and perhaps even those in other countries that I can find where I've attended and can leave a comment.

Its interesting to me that many of the things we each have a natural interest in can be done in these simple ways to make a difference for someone else in sharing the gospel.  There are more activities that may also be of interest to you.

Anyone can participate.


Sunday, July 15, 2012

Logan Helps @ London Olympics

FYI:
Ann and Ian's son Logan is doing sound engineering at the London Olympics.  If you're interested in following his daily blog: http://loganhelps.blogspot.co.uk/

Friday, July 13, 2012

Franklin Cemetery Update

Our new Hoopsi Blue Spruce and bench are looking good at the cemetery.  I stopped in on my return from Boise Monday and laid landscape fabric and mulch around the bench and mulch under the tree.  This will make it easier for Val Dean to mow.  The tree looked very healthy.  Val Dean has been very helpful and left a hose for us to use through the summer.  Diane and Lee have checked on the tree and watered also.

With the remaining fabric and mulch I laid a path from the bench to the grass where we park. 



Family work party in June.





A new beginning.  

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Bible Videos on Mormon Channel

In the past months I may have mentioned to you that Midvale and Murray are becoming a new mission July 1st, Utah Salt Lake City Central.  It is one of two new missions in the country where the missionaries will not be allowed to tract/knock on doors or have cars.  The mission president's home is in the mission and has previously served as a mission president elsewhere.  Senior couples are called from within the stake to serve rather than leaving for other areas.  Instead of sharing three pairs of missionaries with 3 stakes our two pairs will cover only our stake.  We have many non-LDS in Midvale and 60% who are members in our stake do not attend.    

Saturday night at our stake conference several members were asked to speak and some of the Church's bible videos were used to follow up after some of the brief talks on Jesus Christ.  I use some of these in making facebook pages.  This is one I use for English-speaking.

In talking with a friend I realized not everyone knows where to find these 2-3 minute videos.
FYI:
http://mormonchannel.org/biblevideos

In December at Mark's I learned I can watch them on my television via my Roku access to Mormon Channel.  You probably know how to do the same using other devices connecting to your TV.

The video of Jesus suffering in Gethsemane is another one that I really appreciate. The message of course is inspiring, but for me its also more believable because Christ looks like he has suffered. It reminds me of a painting I saw at a recent international LDS art exhibition.  Christ had suffered, he had bled, his garments were stained.  It touched me deeply. 
http://mormonchannel.org/video?v=1518836079001


At our stake conference today I heard the most inspiring member missionary messages I've ever heard from the pulpit.  Our stake choir sang "Gethsemane, Jesus Loves Me."  It was remarkable.  So much so, that I spent time to find the words.  There is one recording of a young child singing it.  Its nice, yet its not the same as my memory of adults singing it and following what we had heard and seen.

Gethsemane song

Jesus climbed the hill to the garden still
his steps were heavy and slow
Love and a prayer took Him there
to the place only He could go.

Gethsemane
Jesus loves me
so He went willingly
to Gethsemane

He felt all that was sad
wicked or bad
all the pain we would ever know.
While His friends were asleep
He fought to keep
His promise made long ago.

Gethsemane
Jesus loves me
so He went willingly
to Gethsemane

The hardest thing that ever was done
The greatest pain that ever was known
The biggest battle that ever was won
This was done by Jesus
The fight was won by Jesus

Gethsemane
Jesus Loves Me
so He gave His gift to me
In Gethsemane

Gethsemane
Jesus Loves Me
So He gives his gift to me
From Gethsemane

Interestingly, it was Elder Todd Christofferson's conference address that I finished reading at lunch.

The Prophet Joseph Smith confirmed the Savior’s central role in our doctrine in one definitive sentence: “The fundamental principles of our religion are the testimony of the Apostles and Prophets, concerning Jesus Christ, that He died, was buried, and rose again the third day, and ascended into heaven; and all other things which pertain to our religion are only appendages to it.”7 Joseph Smith’s testimony of Jesus is that He lives, “for [he] saw him, even on the right hand of God; and [he] heard the voice bearing record that he is the Only Begotten of the Father”

I can be the best friend I know how to my neighbors and as prompted by the Spirit reach out in natural ways without ulterior motive.  That's what I've been doing since I've been a ward missionary the past several years and it has felt good and right.  I've seen how you do the same where you live.

In response to my Father's Day facebook posting of Dad's photo, a dear friend shared a comment David often said. "We are all becoming, and no one has arrived." We all need the remembrance of Gethsemane in our lives. We need Him.

I feel very glad that I live in Midvale!

Back to the videos . . . a few at a time.  Its been a nice Sunday.



Thursday, June 7, 2012

#1000, More or Less.

The image David took for me at their Bogus Basin chapel.  I use it when Google hasn't photographed a location.  Fitting the title to the location increases the detail for the facebook page. 
I just completed my 1000th Facebook page for LDS chapels in US/Canada in 7.5 months.  1190 more to go.  Ha!  Maybe I can finish by the end of the year.  This isn't all the chapels but it is the list given to me of about 2300.  Another missionary did about 20 before she moved to another project.  The math doesn't add up because there are some blanks in the list but its close enough to celebrate. 

Maybe some day the pages will be helpful to someone.  Currently they are likely just an authority support for searches.  Maybe someday they'll be used by a unit.  I just do them.  It doesn't really matter.  Some day the geeks may decide to bag the whole thing.  That doesn't matter either.  Its all a process of figuring out what makes a difference in searching.  Its been fun recognizing places I've been and interesting seeing remote locations where people gather every Sunday to worship.  Its been fun also figuring out how to work around obstacles that pop up.  Interesting diversity in spite of the routine.  My time is cheap.

Some day I might do some more blog writing but for now I draw a blank on subjects.  The Spirit prompts of what to do, for now its just 5 to 10 fb pages a day, sometimes exploring topics to blog, tweet, et al.  I'm exploring Pinterest.  Interest in Salt Lake Magazine got me started there.  Its sort of like browsing around where people hang out and discovering topics or interests in common, occasionally, learning from one another.   If it weren't for my mission I wouldn't have time for most of this.  I enjoy being informed and looking for an opportunity to make a difference in some small way.  

Covington, Louisiana.  My most recent facebook page.
I used to spend more mission hours but currently I feel to find birth, marriage, death dates and places for descendants of William Brigham Parkinson.  Other times its working on some other family history question that seems to surface from time to time, like the Clark question from cousins in Hawaii and North Carolina currently waiting for attention. 

There is just no end of things to do that just might make a difference.  So celebrate #1000 -- do a dance, clink your glasses or simply be glad you have more to do than this. 

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Colt Revolver Relic: Bits of Parkinson history.


I finally took another look for more information on our old gun from the Parkinson property at the base of Little Mountain.  This time I went online to identify the year of manufacture of the Colt relic.   



The following I knew from a gun collector and history buff  library patron in Bozeman.  More information was going to cost $25 from Colt some years ago, so I never went ahead with a match with the serial number. 

1851 Navy Colt Revolver
36 Caliber
Octagonal Barrel
Serial #17499

Today, I found a phone number online and was expecting to pay a fee.  Not so,  she just looked up the information above after I noted the octagonal barrel.

In better days it would have looked like this.  The engraving on the cylinder is a Navy image, therefore its name.  Note the brass piece above the wood handle, that is the back strap that is missing from ours for whatever reason.  



Identified by Colt to have been manufactured in 1852.
7 February 2012 

Wikipedia has more interesting trivia on the 1851 Navy Colt .

My interest in the revolver had been renewed when I took my mission memorabilia to the Church History Library, Tuesday.  They will begin digitizing my journal, letters home, slides and scrapbook.  They'll return the items with a thumb drive in about four months.  They want them for a Brazil Mission project they are doing with emphasis on sister missionaries.  While in Boise I read everything but found nothing needing editing.  I added a preface and afterword to the journal to give perspective.  It has been an interesting journey to see one more evidence that the Lord has things in mind for us that are better than what we might have in mind. 

Scott Christensen, archivist, had written his thesis on Sagwitch the Shoshone chief whose tribe was massacred just north of Franklin in 1863.  Scott loaned me a copy.  It is available online at Digital Commons.  It was very interesting hearing a fuller history of Chief Sagwitch without prejudice but rather appreciation for his strengths.  It was interesting to see the tribe's original record of the temple ordinances they did after the dedication of the Logan Temple.  At that time they didn't have a written language.  Their history was relayed through stories from one generation to the next. From these stories they knew their ancestor's names.  

I hadn't known of an attempt to later establish a homestead community for the tribe near Franklin sponsored by the Church.  A more successful one, Washakie,  was located by Tremonton as I recall.  It was an effort to avoid a reservation environment for them.  

You might remember that the Samuel Rose Parkinson family took in one of the three surviving children from the Bear River Massacre and gave him the name Shem Parkinson.  He was about three-years old at the massacre.  SRP notes him in his journal.  Evidently, there was a trial for stealing from SRP in 1874.  Even so, a couple of months later he notes Shem went along with the family to Mendon for a celebration.  Shem died when he was about 21 or 22 of pneumonia.  

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Thirty-Years Thoughts

Thirty years since Chris slipped away.

After many years of crises the morning began as usual.  All of you off to school and David to work at the Institute, Jill at home with me.  Chris didn't feel like eating much breakfast.  I helped her to her room to dress and do her morning routine of a few exercises she liked to hang on to.  Then after her prayers she laid on the floor with her scriptures and magnifying glass to read.  She liked some independence.

I continued with tidying up the kitchen as usual and answering the phone.  It was Kris Rodgers--had I seen their dog?  After commiserating with Kris I walked to Jill's room to see how she was coming along and noticed Chris on the floor, her head on her scriptures, very still.  She had slipped away.

Dear little Jill only four-years old did as I asked and called David at the Institute.  I lifted Chris on to her bed and then, just not willing to do nothing, tried to resuscitate her.  At some point I called 911,  again needing to do something until David came.  She was gone.

David picked up each of you at school, you know about that better than I do.  

The way we were five months before.   



My birthday present family photo I had saved for all year.    
A difficult day for Chris, but she did her best and cooperated 
when she understood how much I wanted to have our photo.  
Its a treasure.

Thirty years and today its harder than most years.  
At times I sense David's influence and even nearness, but today,
this 30th anniversary of Chris' passing, I can hardly take it in.


I wonder how it is for each of you.  
I wonder how it was for you thirty years ago.  
We can't linger very long at this spot.

Life has moved on to wonderful times and great memories.  
And so it continues to move on.
We are here and they are there.

It was only with David's illness that mourning was replaced 
and then they were together.

Your wonderful lives and sweet personal opportunities along the way 
fill in their absence, 
until we all meet again.

It is your lives and the wonder of the next generation and 
 the reunions and gatherings from time to time 
that makes up for their absence.

So many, many good things happening these days in spite of 
our separation promised to be brief.
And so we'll have a good day and try to make a difference for good.  

Life is good with you.  You each make a difference.

Love,
Mom

Sunday, January 22, 2012

100 Years of Church Education

Tonight I watched the commemoration of 100 years of Church Education.

The Seminaries and Institutes have been a big part of the foundation of our lives.  I'm happy that each of our grandchildren are taking advantage of the opportunity for daily religious education in their high school years.  It makes a difference and blesses us.


Dad was fortunate to have seminary influence all of his high school years.  One of his teachers, Brother Eberhard influenced Dad to want to be a teacher and to study psychology.

I had a semester taught by Brother Scott Whitaker, an artist at Disney Studios and a member of our stake that was willing to be part of the beginnings in California.  We met before school at our ward building and then found our ways to one of the several high schools in our area.  Transportation was a problem.  Families didn't have second cars and their was no public transportation so when the boy in my high school stopped going that was the end of seminary for me.


Serving a mission in Scotland and Ireland convinced David he wanted to teach the youth the gospel all his life.  He wasn't a shoo-in.  His student teacher advisor reported that he had a weird voice that probably wouldn't be acceptable to teens.  We still held out hope.  We knew he would teach seminary but no one seemed to agree.  In the meantime he applied to high schools from Utah to Ketchikan, Alaska.  After interviewing in Vernal to teach a variety of subjects we returned home to "sleep on it."  The next day I got a message at Orem High School where I was teaching to have David call the church education office.

Brother Stanley Best a seasoned teacher and supervisor of seminaries from Price needed a teacher in his area.  At dinner one evening he expressed his frustration to his wife and daughter, a BYU student home for the weekend.  She said, "You ought to talk to my former home teacher, David Parkinson, he wants to teach seminary."  Whatever more she said peaked his interest.  He felt impressed to request Dad be hired.


The administrator first told Dad they had a position in a fine little town, Morgan, that we would just love.  "Oh, sorry about that, its Moab where we'd like you teach."  Well, there was a big difference in landscape and in church attendance.  In those days Moab was about 10% LDS and about half of those attended.  We were excited.  Our five years with the people of Moab became the foundation of our lives and the birthplace of our first three children, Mark, Polly and Chris and some of our fondest memories.  The Mike Bailey missionary letters from New Zealand are another small evidence of our seminary experience in Moab.


Early 1969, the CES teachers were offered opportunity to express their interest in taking seminary to England and Scotland.  We were ecstatic but again passed over.  For a couple of months I was bothered by a convincing dream I'd had walking in Scotland and felt anxious that the decision makers didn't know that we were to go.  Then as we were leaving for Easter in Logan David got a call from Brother Best.  "How would you like to go to England, David?  The brethren were going to offer Australia, but I thought you'd rather go to England.  There's already someone assigned to Scotland but they've decided to add two men in England instead of one to join Brother John Madsen."

Those first four men were greatly challenged in numerous ways in those first three years.  Importing learning materials was very difficult at customs.  Then they decided to print their own and that was an adventure with each home office having a mimeograph machine to crank out the copies for the homestudy students and their teachers.  Personnel changes occurred when John Madsen was called to preside over the Bristol Mission.  More changes came the next year when his replacement opted to return to Utah with their teenage daughter to finish high school.  They persevered and figured it out.  Each year the growing number of CES men from the States eventually went to Germany.  Rather than meet in Germany for their annual staff conference they figured that the Holy Land was just as far as Frankfurt.  The administration in Salt Lake accepted their proposal to convene in Jerusalem, Greece and Rome if they would develop a study program to prepare themselves for the educational and spiritual experience.  That was the beginning of many years of CES training in the Holy Land for experienced teachers and their wives.   It was also the month Bruce was born so I stayed home.  We returned to the States the week after David returned from the conference.  1972 was also the year of the first Area Conference of the Church.  Members gathered from all parts of the United Kingdom in Manchester, England to hear President Joseph Fielding Smith.  I recall walking Bruce in his stroller outside as the hall emptied and a powerful feeling to linger as long as possible with the wonderful spirit of gathering I had felt.


Our association continued with hundreds of students first in Smithfield, UT at Sky View High School, then taking homestudy  to Kansas and at Wichita Institute of Religion.  Hutchinson, Kansas was a great experience for us among people  that hadn't had the opportunity till then.  Teaching the Wichita State Institute students at the stake center each week was a great delight for Dad.  He traveled monthly to Western Kansas and into Oklahoma training teachers and holding Super Saturdays with the homestudy seminary students.  I got to teach homestudy seminary in our ward one year.  Dad was again called as bishop.  We had some of our greatest personal challenges with Chris's diagnosis of brain cancer.  We were blessed with the one more child we felt to have but hadn't yet come to our family, Jill.  And again, we were influenced by wonderful neighbors and friends at church and in David's work.  

In 1980, Dad and I were thrilled for his opportunity to teach Institute at a larger program at Montana State in Bozeman, MT.  We had felt to decline a previous opportunity to teach Institute in Phoenix, AZ because of Chris' recent hospitalization at Primary Children's and his call as bishop of the new Smithfield 7th Ward.  Not getting to teach Institute had been a brief disappointment.  His four years at Bozeman were some of the great joys of his teaching career and his life.  He loved the country and again he loved his students and being with them every day, teaching the gospel multiple classes in a day, playing ping pong with them, encouraging them and showing them how to enjoy life.  Dad really loved living the gospel and teaching the gospel.  There was no other job he would have wanted to have.

1984, Dad's last year with church education.  The number of students had nearly doubled.


 

100 years since the first class of seminary at Granite High School and seminary students and their teachers are in much of the world, influencing every day of their lives.


Studying the scriptures every day of our lives makes a difference.  Teaching that principle was David's focus and his example.  It is a guide to happiness and a protection.

Note:
If you missed the broadcast as I did, you can view it online at http://seminary.lds.org/history/centennial/?cid=lds-home-feature.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

New HubPage


My new missionary blog begins:



"All of us need information. The best job I ever had was reference librarian at a public library. Every day was interesting helping people find answers to their questions. We all know Google has made it even easier. So why is it that people fall prey to scams, political lies, and every other kind of misinformation? This is a good year to try to make a difference for good information.
"I like this easy to remember test to determine good information."


You can read the rest and like, comment, follow at 


Wednesday, November 9, 2011

At BPL I often said,

"This is so much fun and I even get paid!"

This morning as I was finding missing data for googleplaces LDS listings, I couldn't resist making a fb page for Hollywood Ward, their website text was so interesting and inviting.  Besides that was the ward where I was blessed as an infant.  Who can resist that!  David loved that I was from “Hollywood.”  Note that I’m not noted among the notable: 

Welcome to the Hollywood Ward

The Hollywood Ward has a history which dates back to the roaring twenties and Hollywood, California’s beginnings as the ‘entertainment and movie making capital of the world’. Originally organized in March 1923 the Hollywood Ward was part of what was then called the Hollywood Stake. The stake later became the Los Angeles Stake and in 2012 the Hollywood ward will celebrate its 89th birthday.

The Hollywood Ward boundaries include the communities of Hollywood, Los Feliz, Silverlake, much of West Hollywood and famous landmarks like the Hollywood sign, movie studios, Grauman’s Chinese Theater, the Walk of Fame, the intersection of Sunset and Vine, the Capitol Records building, Sunset Strip and the list goes on. Most importantly the Hollywood Ward serves as a beacon for many in a world that offers spotlights, stars and red carpets but too often not enough of the light that is found only in the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

The members of the Hollywood Ward hail from many corners of the world and are as diverse as you
might expect in a city like Los Angeles. You will find members who speak English, Spanish, Russian,
Armenian, Chinese, Tongan, Korean, French, Japanese, Italian, Tagalog and dialects of English from
Britain, Australia, Mississippi, and Spanish Fork. Many of us work in ‘the industry’ as actors, writers and musicians but we’re also teachers, attorneys, accountants, electricians, plumbers, and waiters.

The Hollywood Ward once met in a rented Masonic lodge, later in a rented music conservatory, then for many years in a building purchased from the Methodist church and finally today in a Spanish stylebuilding on Normandie Avenue between Sunset and Hollywood Boulevards.

Whether you have lived in Hollywood forever, are new to the area or are just in town to see the sights,
we invite you to join us on Sunday mornings at 9 am as we worship together and remember our Savior, Jesus Christ.





Didn't I have stunning beginnings!